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Ask Amy: Friend of abused woman steps away

Dear Amy: “Christy” and I have been friends for more than 25 years.Christy married an abusive monster, and after 15 years of her crying to me and then going back to him, I stepped away for a few years.I told her that I believed he would kill her, and if I couldn’t convince her to leave, I had to leave because I couldn’t watch.A few years ago, she told me about the horrible effects of his abuse, which led to hospitalizations and eventually brain surgery for an issue related to his abuse.I brought her into my home for a month, nursed her through the miraculous, frightening surgery, and then she went BACK to him.I stepped away for another three years.She reached out a year ago and told me they had divorced.I went for a visit, and she admitted she’d lied, saying that they had agreed not to divorce, “So, if he dies first, I’ll get his military retirement benefit.”I told her she was nuts, but if she wasn’t sleeping with him, and if she never, ever again called me in tears over him, I’d leave the topic alone.She said OK, then called me in tears a few weeks later over booty call drama with him, and I’ve ghosted her ever since.Since she won’t help herself by not sleeping with him, I’ve turned my back “without explanation,” beyond that first 20 years of pleading with her to get away from him.I know ghosting is cold-hearted, but I’m done.

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Almanac11/28 41 17 -11/29 46 18 -11/30 57 25 -12/1 52 27 -12/2 53 35 .7712/3 35 25 .0212/4 48 29 -Weather data is collected by the City of Ottawa water plant, a National Weather Service observation station.

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SparkWheel is looking for cold weather clothing donations to keep local kids warm this winter.The organization needs donations of socks, gloves, hats, coats/hoodies and scarves.

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Almanac12/5 53 29 -12/6 49 25 -12/7 55 28 -12/8 64 42 -12/9 54 36 .0712/10 47 23 -12/11 48 29 -Weather data is collected by the City of Ottawa water plant, a National Weather Service observation station.

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City officials agree to MOU with OCPI for Legacy Square

Ottawa City commissioners have approved an agreement with a local community organization which is hoping to reignite its efforts to not just complete the project, but expand on its original idea to attract more visitors to downtown Ottawa.But as part of the agreement, the group, Ottawa Community Partnership Inc., would transfer two parcels of real estate to the city in exchange for $475,000 in funding.During the commission’s Nov.

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Kansas court officials confirm details of ‘evil, criminal’ international cyberattack

TOPEKA — Foreign cybercriminals launched the attack on the Kansas judicial branch’s information system in October and stole records of appellate cases and judicial administration files potentially regarded as confidential under state law, officials said Tuesday.Justices of the Kansas Supreme Court issued a joint statement confirming perpetrators “stole data and threatened to post it to a dark website if their demands were not met.” The release didn’t say whether the judicial branch complied with demands of the attackers, nor did it disclose whether evidence existed Kansas court information was forwarded to secretive illicit portions of the web.“This assault on the Kansas system of justice is evil and criminal,” the justices said.

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City water plant recorded 2.5 inches of snow

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